A Man Called Ove
by Fredrik Backman
Every summer my Book Club watches a movie and does a pot luck. It’s amazing. We usually choose a movie based on a book we have read or could choose to read on our own. So this summer we chose, A Man Called Ove. We hadn’t read it for our club, but it had been on my TBR list for a while. Generally speaking, it’s really important to me to read the book before watching the movie, so I was determined to read the book before our meeting. I’m so happy I did. The book was phenomenal and the movie made a lot more sense because I read the book first. Side note: I enjoyed the movie as well! I loved the tone of the whole book. It was lighthearted, especially for the serious subject matter. The book made me feel the whole gamut of emotions. I laughed and cried and truly enjoyed the whole story.
A Man Called Ove is the story of an older Swedish man named, Ove. He has had a hard life, filled with loss. His one love was his wife and she has recently passed away. In addition he just lost his job of several decades. He is lonely and depressed and decides to kill himself because there is nothing left to live for. He takes care of his unfinished business and goes to hang himself, but the rope breaks. Ove is a bit of an odd man and likes things in his neighborhood to be a certain way, like no driving through the residential area. New neighbors move in and do their best to befriend Ove, but he wants nothing to do with them, especially since they do things differently than he does. Spoilers: He tries again and again to kill himself, but every attempt is interrupted for one reason or another. Ever so slowly, Ove opens up to his neighbors and begins to change and see hope. He begins to have reasons to stick around. From helping his new neighbors, to a boy from town, to a wayward cat, to a nemesis (who now has Alzheimer’s). People need him and he begins to realize that he wants to be there for them and not kill himself. It is beautiful watching Ove move from tragedy (losing his dad when he was a teenager, losing his only unborn child when he and his wife were in a bus accident, and seeing his wife lose her mobility in the same accident) to love (like when he gives his new neighbor’s daughter an iPad for her drawing). He has a beautiful story and continues to develop his friendships with his neighbors, living a fulfilled, happy life. In the end he dies in peace and happiness, with the cat by his side.
Summing it up: the story was so heartwarming. I really loved it and I highly recommend it.
All the best, Abbey
P.S. How do you pronounce, “Ove?” In the movie it was, “o – veah.” But I’ve heard it “ooov” and “of” too. Thoughts?!